If you want to stay in control of the date and keep him interested then take it easy and don’t overindulge.If your date becomes your boyfriend then there will be plenty of opportunities for both of you to let your hair down.A good discussion, good communication between two lovers, that's what makes a good relationship. How can you turn an awkward first date with the man of your dreams into the relationship you’ve dreamed of?But a guy will most likely be a little scared if you knock back a few shots before dinner.Think carefully about inviting us back after a first date – Yes, we might well ask you but that doesn’t necessarily mean we want you to say yes.
Express why it’s important to you to acknowledge your status as a girlfriend in public and how you value the relationship.It doesn’t matter how great your connection was or how much fun had on the date. It doesn’t matter if he’s the smartest, most gorgeous, funniest, most interesting guy on the planet, if he’s not calling you, you can’t call him. Imagine what Chris thought when Brittney contacted him that third time. Think about how you would feel if someone you weren’t that into kept texting you? That is his way of saying he doesn’t want to see you again. After you send your “thank you” text, you have a great opportunity to gauge his interest. After all, don’t you deserve to be with someone who’s nuts about you? Granted it’s not the kindest route to take, but that’s what it means. If he doesn’t respond, you’ll know he’s not that into you. But exactly how do you find out without asking him outright and getting a look like you’ve just asked him to marry you?